In a lately resurfaced video from June 2018, Pastor John Gray is seen revealing to his flock that he might have been untrue to spouse, Aventer Gray.
“We had to preserve smiling as a result of despite the fact that we had been struggling, despite the fact that I used to be failing as a husband, I used to be already in entrance of the folks, and the folks can’t actually obtain my brokenness,” he defined. “Me and my spouse simply stored smiling and no one knew we had been preparing to break up … I began listening to the incorrect voices and let some folks get too shut. She discovered, and she or he set it off, identical to an excellent spouse ought to.”
Aventer, who was by her husband’s aspect throughout the confession, additionally spoke in regards to the affair and defined why she caught round.
“After which I prayed for them and him after which the satan loses,” she said. “As a result of what’s not going to occur is you inform me that I’m going to lose my objective as a result of somebody whispered to a ’16-year-old John’. The satan is a lie. I’m standing with my husband, and you may go on again to the pits of hell the place you got here from.”
“Was I upset? Sure. Was I heartbroken? Sure,” she stated. “However you higher learn the way to get in there for the — what’s the vows? — higher and worse so when the worst exhibits up you don’t run away.”
The months-old footage resurfaced simply after John purchased a $200,000 Lamborghini truck for his spouse, which many now consider was to make amends for the affair.